The art of meaningful conversation within a family unit or among friends is an important element in the relationships that we have with others. As this holiday season approaches, our FGC Staff Character Committee would like share the following article by Tim Lickona on how you can ask good questions at home, and hopefully learn more about each other in the process.
Conversation Starters: Promoting Family Communication
by Tom Lickona
1. What was the best part of your day?
2. What was the hardest part of today? How did you deal with it?
3. What are you grateful for today?
4. What happened today that you didn't expect?
5. What's something new you learned today?
6. What was an interesting conversation you had today?
7. What's something you accomplished today?
8. How did you help someone today, or how did someone help you?
9. What is something someone in the family did recently that you appreciated?
10. Who has a problem that the rest of the family might be able to help with?
11. What's an interesting book you're reading or have read recently?
12. What are two things that other people can do that make you feel happy?
13. What's something you look forward to?
14. What are some things you can do to help yourself get out of a bad mood?
15. If you could be granted three wishes, what would they be?
16. If you could change one thing about yourself, what would it be?
17. How do you know if someone is the right person for you to marry?
18. What does "success" mean to you?
19. Who is someone that you admire? Why?
20. If you had $100 to give to a charity, who would you give it to?
21. If you could have dinner with anyone from history, who would it be? Why?
22. What is one mistake you regret? What do you wish you had done differently?
23. Where would you most like to go on vacation?
24. What is a way that you've changed in the past year (or two years)?
25. Share a happy or funny childhood memory.
26. New Year's: What are two goals you have for the year?
27. Looking back: What were two highlights of the past year(this summer, this fall, this winter)?
28. If your house was on fire, what is one thing you would try to pick up on the way out?
29. Share a happy or funny childhood memory.
30. Bouncing question: One person asks another a question (such as any of the ones on this list), then that person asks someone else a different question, and so on, until everybody has been asked one.
31. One word topics: Choose any topic (school, sports, TV, movies, friends, heroes, religion, decisions, music, politics, etc.). Anyone can say anything about the topic that comes to mind.
Additional Conversation Resources Included in the Article:
Journal in a Jar: http://www.everydaycheapskate.com/marys-perspective/give-the-legacy-of-a life-history/
Family Dinner Project: http://thefamilydinnerproject.org/conversation/
Beauty and Bedlam: http://beautyandbedlam.com/conversation-starter-questions/